Friday, December 24, 2004

I used to ask a fren this question "how not to fall in love to someone?" and he replied, "gud luck". I have been searching for the answer for my question unfortenatley I haven't found one until a person came up to me and asked "hey Ike, how do u make yourself not to fall in love to someone?" I was thinking, hey I used to ask this question to someone before..there..I got questioned by a friend. Well, suprisingly I asnwered her "well, try make yourself occupy and stop thinking about her. I know its hard but you will never know if you try". "But isnt it hard to let go of someone?". (Ouch this question really put an arrow straight to my heart). "well, yeah past stories die hard but you have to confront the past if you want to face the future, right? ." But what if you will never forget your past?". "of course you will never forget it, coz it stays in your book. But you won't actually remember it but it will encounters once in the while tho'.."

I was thinking maybe..I shud have answered it by myself. I mean..not that I am complaining but that is sometimes, you need to be asked to get some answers. You cant get anything by yourself. Its weird but thats what you have to do. Thinking and thinking is not good as sometimes it doesnt makes sense rite??

If you do everything byself, sometimes you wonder "am I at the right path?" or "am I following the wrong path? you will never know unless you make a mistake then, you know. IT will make you wiser. A friend of mine, at the moment, devastated as her sister got a bf who is older enuff for her (thats what my friend thinks) but I guess, you will never know what will happen. A fren used to tell me that "if u are inlove with someone who is younger than you, you will love him more and sacrifices everything for him BUT if you are inlove with someone who is older than you, he will love you more and sacrifices everything for you"..so there, go figure what it means..I dont think I need to say more rite?

"Love is superficial. The more you get yourself involves in it, the more you are charmed by it. Prepare yourself with a potion to prevent yourself from getting vanquish"

1 comment:

WY said...

hi ikea. sorry sbb lama tak letak comment. well, hols finally around for me to do some catching up.

well, how not to fall in love? well., i would say, just keep remind yourself of all the bad things the person had. :P

oh perhaps, cry it out, and then confess to the person, and get it over with.

anyway..happy new year ...Luv...